salam 'alaik~

kisah bermula disini..ok..time aku sedang berjalan2 sorang ke kuliah, (ok, bilik jauh dri org laen kan..nseb la..) , dgn rentak gembira g kuliah..(sbb turun dri bilik awal dri normal AKU), aku pon jalan la slow2 smbil menikmati keindahan usm.(erk)..tgh2 jalan tu terdengar la ada 2 sahabat sedang berborak2..aku xcuri dgr ok, terdengar je...hehe..

kawan 1 : ang suka x klo ang jd seseorang yang penting dalam idup org lain??
kawan 2 : ish, soalan ang ni susah la nk jwb..

ok, bila dgr budak2(aku rasa la cm junior) ni bercakap, otak aku ligat pikir...mesti "kawan 1" baru dpat pakwe ke, atau someone la ckp cm gitu kat dia...aku pon tanpa niat percepat langkah, cuba2 'terdengar' la ape yg dia nk cerita..

kawan 1 : hahaha..(gelak), bukan apa, tadi aku g library, jumpa la buku cara2 nak org suka kat kite..tajuk dia "how to be lovable"
kawan 2 : oh, yeke, cuba cerita apa yang ade dlm buku tuh...
kawan 1 : yg first, aku xigt la, tapi yang second die kate kite mst selalu senyum..hiiiiii
kawan 2 : ok, syarat tu aku dh lepas..hahahah(gelak2 bersama)

HOW TO BE LOVABLE

Consider yourself someone worthy of being loved. This may take some work to recover from something in your past, but you must get past any negative thinking that you are somehow unworthy of being loved.

Smile and be pleasant to those around you. Exude a positive attitude, and don't be a complainer. People are more likely to perceive you as lovable if they enjoy being in your company.

Pay attention to your personal appearance. Taking care to be presentable tells people that you consider yourself worthy to take good care of yourself in all ways, and that will translate into them having the same opinion of you.


Take pride in your accomplishments and realize that you have something to offer to those around you. Do your fair share of the work when a project needs to be accomplished and you'll be loved for making it easier on everyone else involved.


Give of yourself. Recognize when a friend needs help, whether it's just an ear to listen, or if she needs someone to watch her children for her. Do something nice for someone "just because." Volunteer your time to charities that are meaningful to you.

Be happy and optimistic. No matter your circumstances, you can choose to focus on the good, or focus on the bad. People are going to think of you as lovable if you manage to be pleasant despite your adversities.

Step 3

Pay attention to your personal appearance. Taking care to be presentable tells people that you consider yourself worthy to take good care of yourself in all ways, and that will translate into them having the same opinion of you.

Step 4

Take pride in your accomplishments and realize that you have something to offer to those around you. Do your fair share of the work when a project needs to be accomplished and you'll be loved for making it easier on everyone else involved.

Step 5

Give of yourself. Recognize when a friend needs help, whether it's just an ear to listen, or if she needs someone to watch her children for her. Do something nice for someone "just because." Volunteer your time to charities that are meaningful to you.

Step 6

Be happy and optimistic. No matter your circumstances, you can choose to focus on the good, or focus on the bad. People are going to think of you as lovable if you manage to be pleasant despite your adversities.

Read more: How to Be Lovable | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_2081406_be-lovable.html#ixzz0usyKdDj0

Step 2

Smile and be pleasant to those around you. Exude a positive attitude, and don't be a complainer. People are more likely to perceive you as lovable if they enjoy being in your company.

Step 3

Pay attention to your personal appearance. Taking care to be presentable tells people that you consider yourself worthy to take good care of yourself in all ways, and that will translate into them having the same opinion of you.

Step 4

Take pride in your accomplishments and realize that you have something to offer to those around you. Do your fair share of the work when a project needs to be accomplished and you'll be loved for making it easier on everyone else involved.

Step 5

Give of yourself. Recognize when a friend needs help, whether it's just an ear to listen, or if she needs someone to watch her children for her. Do something nice for someone "just because." Volunteer your time to charities that are meaningful to you.

Step 6

Be happy and optimistic. No matter your circumstances, you can choose to focus on the good, or focus on the bad. People are going to think of you as lovable if you manage to be pleasant despite your adversities.

Read more: How to Be Lovable | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_2081406_be-lovable.html#ixzz0usy9LjHS

OK, credit to this page (eHow.com)..ish, knapa xleh letak link ni...

jujurnya, tips tu agak la menarik, tapi maybe perlu menambah baikan utk diri aku plus sape2 yang lebih byk menyebabkan org rs annoying kt dia~